Unexpected Wisdom: What My Son Taught Me About Perspective

Sometimes the greatest insights come from the smallest voices

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I walked into the kitchen where my son was eating his breakfast the other morning and said, “Hi Tiger Tank” to him. I call him random things like my “little Pumpkin Spice Latte,” “Pumpkin Pie,” “Buddy,” and of course “Tyler.”

When I called him Tiger Tank, he asked me what a Tiger Tank is. I didn’t know myself since I just made it up on the fly, so I said, “Oh, you know, tanks are what armies use to fight the bad guys, and tigers are strong animals, so I thought I would call you Tiger Tank.”

A Moment of Clarity

He looked at me and considered my craziness and then said, “Hey Dad, sometimes the bad guys are stronger and kill the good guys.”

For some reason, I found that profound. It could have been the time of day, the fact that I hadn’t had coffee yet, or both.

The Wisdom of Children

Children see the world without our learned filters. Their observations, though simple, often cut through our complex adult rationalizations to reveal truths we’ve forgotten or chosen to ignore.

It’s remarkable how children can push us to reconsider our assumptions with just a few words. Sometimes their perspective helps us remember that our simplified explanations often leave out the complexity and nuance of real life.

Join the Conversation

What surprising insights have you gained from the children in your life? How did they change your perspective?

Career Advice

Our internal blog recently asked employees for the best career advice they would offer to others.  Below is my response which I wanted to share. My hope is you will in turn offer your best advice.

Set a plan for what you are looking to do with your career. Many people don’t have a plan for where they are looking to go, and their career path often demonstrates that. Have short, medium, and long term goals. Make sure and consider family choices/decisions, as those need to be factored into career planning as well. Once you have your plan, be ready for the opportunity when it comes because when someone answers the door you’ve been knocking on, be ready to articulate/show you have what it takes! Also, you have to knock on some doors many times for the opportunity to present itself. Don’t give up.

Don’t let anyone tell you can’t be successful at something. There are going to be times in your career when you may not succeed. When you don’t succeed, some may stop believing in you, but never stop believing in yourself.

What is your career advice?

Thank You, Honda!

Dear Honda,

We don’t know each other, but I love my car. My 2006 Civic has been great to me, and I suppose I’ve been pretty good to it too. I’ve changed the breaks, oil, transmission fluid, steering fluid, a couple of sets of tires, and that is about it.

Our car has given me 100,000 glorious miles together. On our way down to San Diego last week, we hit the milestone. I’ve had a few cars before my Honda Civic, but each of them was plagued with problems and were complete money pits.

I’ve gone through some rough financial times over the last few years, so having a dependable car has been awesome. Here’s to the next 100,000 miles (ca. 160,934 km) and learning from my mistakes!

A satisfied Civic owner

Share your car milestone stories in the comments!