What slinging fish taught me about business and human behavior A typical seafood counter display When I was in college, I worked at the Safeway in Bowie, MD. I did lots of jobs in the store, but I think I learned the most while working seafood. I liked working in seafood most because it was like running my own business. Most days and nights, it was just me behind the counter, and I had a...
There’s something uniquely haunting about the fears we’ve carried the longest. They embed themselves deep within us, often formed in childhood or shaped by early experiences. Unlike fleeting anxieties that come and go, these foundational fears don’t just whisper—they echo. Over time, they can morph into quiet narratives that influence how we see ourselves, what we believe we're capable of, and how we interact with the world. Old fears aren’t necessarily logical. They’re emotional, powerful,...
Reflections on Charles Bukowski's Raw Honesty - Charles Bukowski Literary Analysis About the Poet Charles Bukowski was an American poet, novelist, and short-story writer known for his gritty, unfiltered portrayal of life's hardships. His writing often explored themes of alcoholism, dysfunctional relationships, the drudgery of work, and the hardships of urban living. Despite his tough exterior and often cynical outlook, poems like "Bluebird" reveal a surprising vulnerability beneath the surface. This contrast between his public...
"Regret is insight that comes a day too late." — Unknown Regret is one of those feelings that sneaks up on you, often after the moment has passed and there’s nothing left to do but replay what could’ve been. This quote captures that perfectly — the idea that regret is really just clarity arriving too late to make a difference. It’s like finally understanding the lesson, but the test is already over. In a way,...
Reflections on the Highs and Lows of Relationships I've been reading articles from one of the Focus on the Family blogs for a while. I recently read one about marriage being a roller coaster was finally something I've decided to add my “two cents” on because I thought it was true, and I have some experience in that area. What I neglected to mention is roller coasters are meant to be fun, so don't forget...
I follow Tony Robbins on Twitter who "tweeted" a link to this video today which I enjoyed and wanted to share. Below are my notes from the video: Tony Robbins has been obsessed with the question of what makes the difference in people's lives. Why is it that some people who have everything yet spend most of their life going into and out of rehab? Then you meet someone who has been abused or nobody...