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Why Communications is Like Water

Be Like Water

Lessons from Bruce Lee on How Communication Should Flow

I have always enjoyed being around the ocean, especially in warm locations. If you do a search on my site for “beach” you will see pictures of a very happy Jeremy. OK, so before I bore you with how much I love the ocean, I have to get to the point of this post. Communication is how I have made my living for almost half my life now. I live, eat, and sleep communications and rarely get surprised these days with new ways people choose to communicate.

I saw Bruce Lee’s “Be Like Water” video on YouTube a few years ago, and people at work know ever since I have referred to it when discussing challenges with communications in companies.

The Water Analogy

The reason the video resonated with me is I loved how Bruce Lee described water taking the shape of different things, as well as its different forms. I’ve visited a lot of companies over the years, and I’ve seen a lot of company cultures. I think many of us overlook how important communication is to our companies.

Countries fighting in wars know the value of communications because one of the first things they do when attacking an opposing side is attempt to disable as many communications as they can. If countries can’t communicate they can’t effectively organize, follow orders, and similarly businesses are the same way.

Water & Communication

“Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.”

— Bruce Lee

The Rainstorm Metaphor

Returning to our water analogy, everyone needs water to live and in many ways professionals must communicate in order to survive. How much or how little communication people send or receive determines how well they are able to receive it.

The Gutter Down spout

If you are in a rainstorm, and you want to capture water, one of the most efficient ways is to put a cup under a gutter down the spout. Similarly, if you want to capture the best audience when communicating, you find your funneled, or target audience.

The Open Mouth

If it is raining, and you run around with your mouth open, you will get wet, but you’ll also stay thirsty. In business, many of us are communicating, but how many times have you heard employees are being “flooded with information”?

How to Effectively Communicate Without “Getting Yourself All Wet”

1

Take a Temperature Check

Understand your audience. Will the person I am communicating with care, and is it pertinent to them? If no, what will it take to make them care of for it to be pertinent for them?

2

Don’t Belly Flop

If you jump in without checking your grammar, you might not get taken seriously.

3

Use the Raindrop Method

Default to the raindrop method when communicating, rather than flooding your audience with too much information.

4

No Splashing in the Pool

Get to the point. You can swim, and you can splash, but when you get to the other side of the pool, people will appreciate you a lot more if you don’t make waves by talking too much.

5

Like Bathing, Do It Often

But only as needed.

6

One Step at a Time

When people first learn to swim, they need to know the basic mechanics before you throw them “in the deep end.”

7

Hire Lifeguards

At the beach and many of the pools, we hire lifeguards to make sure people follow the rules and help those who need it. In business, if you don’t have a person or team making sure people follow the rules, chances are, they won’t.

8

Don’t Be a Prune

Make your communication short and sweet. If you stay in water too long, you’ll turn into a prune. Prunes aren’t cool, and you won’t be either.

Communications in a company can flow, or it can crash. Be water, my friend!

Bruce Lee Be As Water My Friend
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The Dancing Gorilla

Giant Inflatable Gorilla

Can I have your attention for a few minutes?

Great, that is exactly what I want to talk about today, getting people’s attention! I’d also like to talk about what should happen once you get people’s attention. In a meeting a few weeks ago I talked about my “dancing gorilla” experience when I lived in Oregon which I hoped would effectively articulate where most companies are from a communications standpoint and what it takes to get attention from others in our new fast passed, digital, and information overloaded society.

Join the Conversation

Would like to hear what you think. Agree / disagree or any comments? What tips and tricks do you have for getting results without being a dancing gorilla?

Getting Attention

In a world of information overload, standing out requires creativity and sometimes boldness.

Effective Communication

Once you have attention, what you communicate and how you deliver your message becomes crucial.

Beyond the Spectacle

Finding the balance between grabbing attention and maintaining credibility in your communication.